Be More Creative - How To Shake Off The Shoulds That Choke Your Creativity
Be More Creative - How To Shake Off The Shoulds That Choke Your Creativity
By Dan Goodwin
Often we look at how to be more creative by analysing other people, comparing ourselves, and wondering why we aren't as creative as they are. Up to a point this can be useful. There may be certain techniques, systems and routines that other people find help them be to more creative, that we can learn and adapt to help us in our own creative lives.
But there's always the danger of comparing too closely, trying to exactly emulate someone else's "success", even though they're a very different person to you.
On top of this, most of the time, you probably don't actually know the person as well as you think you do, so the things you're trying to emulate aren't an accurate reflection of their everyday reality anyway.
So you end up trying to be just like what you think someone else is like in order to be as creative as they are. Which inevitably ends in frustration and disappointment, firstly because you're different and don't have exactly the same ambitions, abilities and resources, and secondly because the person you're trying to be like isn't like you think they are anyway.
So how can you avoid this state of creative frustration that ends up leaving you even less creative than when you started?
The problem is you're overloaded with "shoulds", and this simply chokes the life out of your creativity.
I SHOULD be more creative, I SHOULD be able to create work as good as her, I SHOULD be able to create on demand, I SHOULD be able to create perfect work every time...
All you do with this approach is set up a whole load of unrealistic expectations that you'll never fulfil.
The end result can only be disappointment and a sense of failure.
And a further problem with this approach is that you don't give yourself credit and reward for all you DO create.
If you're always expecting to achieve 100% in every creative project, then even if you reach 80 or 90% and create some wonderful work, because your eyes and expectations are fixed on "I should achieve 100%", you don't see all that you do achieve.
In short, it's time to shake off the "shoulds" and give yourself a fair chance to realise how much you create - compared only to yourself - and stop building layers of unrealistic expectations based on misinformed impressions of other people.
It's time to let go of all the things you think you "should" do and "should" be, and just create.
A great place to start is to look at your creative strengths and what works FOR YOU.
Think about times in the past when you've been highly creative. What have been the key elements in place that have enabled you to create freely? Think about external elements, such as the schedule you used, the workspace you had set up, and the materials and forms you were working with.
Just as importantly, consider the internal elements. What was your state of mind in these periods of creativity, what were you telling yourself, what did you believe about your creativity and your abilities?
Then next step is to start putting these elements back in place in your creative life today.
Shaking off the shoulds can be a highly liberating act, and finally free you to create in YOUR unique way, like only you can. Isn't it time you took the first step today?
I invite you to take the next positive step to increase your creativity today by downloading your free copy of the powerful and practical "Explode Your Creativity!" Action Workbook at http://www.CoachCreative.com
From Creativity Coach Dan Goodwin
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